{ 02 } — The discharge
Why shaking helps: the anger your body never finished.
Angry · 1 to 3 minutes · The move: shake, then stand still
You've had the argument. You said the thing, or you didn't. An hour later your jaw is still tight and your hands still want to hit something. The event is over. The charge isn't.
The fuel is still in the tank.
Anger is the body loading you with fuel to act: adrenaline, blood to the big muscles, a faster heart. When you don't act, because you can't or shouldn't, the fuel stays. Talking it through moves the story. It doesn't burn the fuel.
What the evidence actually says.
The popular version is the gazelle: outrun the lion, tremble for a minute, walk off and eat. It's a compelling theory, and the science on 'tremoring' is still young. What isn't young is the plain finding underneath it: a short bout of vigorous movement reliably lowers state anger and tension. Shaking is that bout, in a form you can do in a kitchen.
So the claim here is modest and solid. Move hard for a minute, and the surge has been spent instead of stored.
The move — 1 to 3 minutes
How to shake.
- Stand, feet hip-width, knees soft.
- Bounce lightly through the heels. Let the shake spread up through the legs, hips, shoulders, hands.
- Let the jaw go slack. Make noise if you want to.
- Ninety seconds to three minutes. Then stand still and take one long exhale.
In Regulate: Chaos Release.
The shake game. You charge the meter by shaking the phone as hard as you like, the screen calms as the charge drains, and it ends inside one slow exhale. Met first, then slowed. That's the order the body settles in too.
Sources
Evidence: Emerging
Regulate is a nervous system regulation app for iOS. Not meditation. Regulation.
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